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Nothing Leads to Everything
In our ongoing exploration of Alexander Technique and non-doing, last week I had my college students read and discuss Ross Gay’s essay...
Eve Bernfeld
Oct 25, 20222 min read


Resistance
The first time I recall feeling anxious before travel I was 29 years old. My dad was driving me to the airport for the trip of a...
Eve Bernfeld
Jun 3, 20222 min read


There's No Such Thing as an Ant
I watched a sugar ant walk across my kitchen counter, knowing that a string of ants wouldn’t be far behind. And I found myself engaged...
Eve Bernfeld
May 15, 20222 min read


Waste Not...
I was commiserating with a student yesterday about how hard it is to find time to dedicate to the Alexander Technique practice of lying...
Eve Bernfeld
Mar 2, 20222 min read


Portrait of a Mother in Repose
Saturday is the one day I dispense with my morning routine. No scraping myself out of bed before my family to sweep, write and walk...
Eve Bernfeld
Oct 19, 20212 min read


Five Things I’m Saying NO to So That I Can Say YES to What I Want
Lately, after a year and a half of dormancy, opportunities have started coming my way—things that elicit, as my friend Melissa would say,...
Eve Bernfeld
Sep 1, 20212 min read


What If Judgment...*
1. What if judging myself (and the ensuing shame spiral) is just another habit that is not currently serving me? Could I approach my...
Eve Bernfeld
Jul 20, 20213 min read


While I Eat
It is entirely possible (if inadvisable) for me to eat a meal while careening down the freeway at 65 miles per hour and simultaneously...
Eve Bernfeld
Jul 8, 20213 min read


Self-Permission
Expressing ourselves through words or images or movement is not about “talent” or being “good enough” to be a professional
Eve Bernfeld
May 3, 20213 min read


Is NO a Four-Letter Word?
Part 3: “Mind what you have learned. Save you it can.” I spent the better part of a recent Friday trying to get ahold of Oregon...
Eve Bernfeld
Sep 2, 20203 min read


Is NO a Four-Letter Word?
Part 2: Without No, there can be no Yes.
Eve Bernfeld
Jul 21, 20203 min read


Is NO a Four-Letter Word? Part 1: Ado Annie
I thanked the word NO, for giving me this much-needed solitude.
Eve Bernfeld
Mar 8, 20203 min read


Fun With the Scientific Method
Asking the right questions might be most life-affirming favor we can do for someone. Or for ourselves.
Eve Bernfeld
Feb 6, 20203 min read


It's the HOW
My ability to manage the HOW I do things is the difference between feeling steamrolled by my life and feeling like I can (just) manage it.
Eve Bernfeld
Jan 8, 20202 min read


Schooled
Sometimes the most “productive” thing to do is nothing. Productive of renewed energy, refreshed thinking, rediscovered enthusiasm.
Eve Bernfeld
Aug 7, 20192 min read


Still, Not Stiff
I’m a big fan of movement. But sometimes this moving-to-try-not-to-be-stiff is counter-productive.
Eve Bernfeld
May 15, 20192 min read


Weekend Warrior
“I’m so mad at my body!” my student reported to me on Monday morning. I imagine many of us have felt this way.
Eve Bernfeld
May 6, 20193 min read


Ready List
What a revelation to be in the city and to See it, Breathe, and not make myself small. To be present in a way I never was in my 20s.
Eve Bernfeld
Apr 23, 20194 min read


Life-Changing
We all wish for change to be a relatively fast, easy and painless process, but real change is slower and slipperier.
Eve Bernfeld
Mar 20, 20193 min read


C for Effort/Conservation of Energy
Isn’t it funny, I thought to myself, that I react to fatigue by doing things that make life harder for myself?
Eve Bernfeld
Sep 26, 20183 min read
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