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We Teach What We Need to Learn
Last week I made myself sick. Well, me and some streptococcus bacteria. First I feared COVID. Egads. But one swab up my nose and one down...
Eve Bernfeld
Oct 21, 20203 min read
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Is NO a Four-Letter Word?
Part 3: “Mind what you have learned. Save you it can.” I spent the better part of a recent Friday trying to get ahold of Oregon...
Eve Bernfeld
Sep 2, 20203 min read
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Is NO a Four-Letter Word?
Part 2: Without No, there can be no Yes.
Eve Bernfeld
Jul 21, 20203 min read
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Creating a Daily Alexander Technique Practice
As we strive to change the world, is it selfish to work on ourselves? Or is it the only way?
Eve Bernfeld
Jun 10, 20202 min read
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How Do We Make Meaning in Difficult Times?
Playing with arithmetic today, I figure I’ve taken over 200 walks in the last 13 weeks since I’ve been staying at home. Yesterday I baked...
Eve Bernfeld
Jun 8, 20203 min read
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Working on Myself
My 95-year-old Grannie says she’s under house arrest. No, no, everyone assures her, she’s in protective custody. How are you doing in...
Eve Bernfeld
Apr 12, 20203 min read
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Tangled
I propose we spend a few minutes every day taking some time to PAUSE. Taking some time to reorganize ourselves.
Eve Bernfeld
Mar 24, 20202 min read
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Is NO a Four-Letter Word? Part 1: Ado Annie
I thanked the word NO, for giving me this much-needed solitude.
Eve Bernfeld
Mar 8, 20203 min read
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Fun With the Scientific Method
Asking the right questions might be most life-affirming favor we can do for someone. Or for ourselves.
Eve Bernfeld
Feb 6, 20203 min read
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It's the HOW
My ability to manage the HOW I do things is the difference between feeling steamrolled by my life and feeling like I can (just) manage it.
Eve Bernfeld
Jan 8, 20202 min read
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If You're Not Scared...
“If I’m not scared, I’m not doing enough,” Mary told me. This was her attitude toward life. She was a jazz singer I took lessons with...
Eve Bernfeld
Dec 11, 20192 min read
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Stormy Weather
Changing my position, giving myself, quite literally, a different perspective, tends to rattle something free in my brain.
Eve Bernfeld
Dec 2, 20192 min read
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Self-Portrait
What if we were to expand our idea of ourselves to include the WHOLE THING?
Eve Bernfeld
Nov 12, 20192 min read
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My Self-Care Today
To do one thing at a time is so unusual in our culture that we may feel sheepish doing it. It’s downright counter-cultural. It’s radical.
Eve Bernfeld
Oct 31, 20192 min read
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Fun with Numbers
$100,000,000,000 – Estimated Total Cost (per year) associated with Back Pain in the US (as of 2009). 31,000,000 – Number of Americans...
Eve Bernfeld
Oct 23, 20192 min read
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The Crux
Saying NO to the million tiny habits of body and mind that contribute to feeling diminished, to feeling like I can’t go on.
Eve Bernfeld
Oct 16, 20193 min read
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Pause Now, Thank Me Later
I kept catching myself lifting my shoulders, hunching toward my paper and holding my breath. Old habits die hard.
Eve Bernfeld
Sep 11, 20192 min read
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Schooled
Sometimes the most “productive” thing to do is nothing. Productive of renewed energy, refreshed thinking, rediscovered enthusiasm.
Eve Bernfeld
Aug 7, 20192 min read
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No Complaining!
When I was little, my mother put a piece of paper on the fridge with a magnet. On the paper she had written “NO COMPLAINING!” That...
Eve Bernfeld
Jul 11, 20193 min read
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How to Improve Your Child's Posture
Hunching over or puffing up are not benign, but are instead powerful information about what is happening inside our children (and ourselves)
Eve Bernfeld
Jun 2, 20193 min read
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